Vacation Planning Tips To Include A Child With Autism

A family vacation should be relaxing and fun.  Itaccommodate a family with a child diagnosed with
should be an opportunity for family members toAutism.  One of the common accommodations is
connect and enjoy each others company.  All tooto allow Front of the Line Passes for our
often, a family with a child with autism findsfamilies.  In order to get one, they usually require
taking a family vacation too stressful.  More anda letter of diagnosis from your child's doctor.
more, family vacations are vacations forBelow is a list of Autism friendly vacation
everyone except the child with autism. destinations.  For more specific information about
I am the mother of two children.  My daughter iseach, please refer to my Autism Friendly Vacation
five and a half.  My son is ten.  My son is alsoDestinations  post on my blog.
nonverbal with a diagnosis of severe autism. 1. Sesame Place, located near Philadelphia in
This does not stop us from taking vacationsLanghorne, PA, only 90 minutes south of
together.  I have found that, with well thoughtManhattan.
out planning, we have a terrific time together on2. Challenge Aspen in Snowmass, Colorado
family vacations.3. Disney World
The first thing parents need to do when planning4. Busch Gardens
a vacation is determining the destination.  For all5. Sea World
families, this means concentrating on family6. Holiday World & Splashin' Safari in Santa
friendly, children friendly destinations.  It is theClaus, Indiana .
same for a family with a child diagnosed with7. Vacation Home Rentals
autism.  You need to determine what your child's8. Smugglers' Notch Resort in northern Vermont.
interests are and what kind of places bring your9. Surfer's Healing Based in San Diego, 2009
child the most joy.  If you have more than onecamps will be held in California (several locations);
child, choose the interests that they share.  OnceVirginia Beach, VA; Wrightsville Beach, NC; Belmar,
you have determined one or two commonNJ; Montauk, NY.
interests, you are ready to select a destination.10. Autism on the Seas
Your next step is to determine how far you wish11. Leaps...n...Boundz - " ‘Community
to travel to your vacation destination andAdventure Weekends'
whether or not you will drive or take a plane.  I12. "Finger Lakes Wellness Center and Health Spa
recommend driving.  Once you are on a plane,(in conjunction with Hickory Hill Family Camping
you can not get off until the plane lands and isResort)
ready to disembark.  Children that are confined13. Mote Marine Laboratory and Aquarium in
for a long period of time in a closed inSarasota, FL.
environment, get bored, irritable, and mayAnother important consideration when planning
become unmanageable, depending on their age. your vacation should be where you are planning
A child with autism is most likely to feel all thoseto stay.  You can stay at a hotel or rent a
things and more.  Depending on your child, youvacation home or condo.  I prefer renting a suite
could be looking at a full blown meltdown.at a hotel that has a kitchenette and separate
You want a vacation that is low in stress.  Therebedroom for the adults.  It costs a little more,
is no such thing as a completely stress freebut it allows me to fix meals for my picky eater
vacation for any family.  If you expect one, youand a separate bedroom allows me a place to go
will be disappointed.  The key is to accept thiswhen I need time for myself.  
fact and to minimize the opportunities for stress. Now you can plan a great vacation for your
Driving to your vacation destination allows thefamily.  I would like to finish this article with a
parent control over their environment that ridingfew final suggestions to help you. 
on a plane does not.  You can stop at any time- 1. Pack some favorite items/toys for your child
and allow your child to get out and stretch his- 2. When traveling by car, take a lot of breaks.
her legs.  There are a lot of rest areas onMake use of the Rest Areas along the Highway.
Highways that have picnic areas.  These are- 3. Prepare your child for your vacation. Talk
perfect for giving your child an opportunity to runabout it and show pictures of your destination to
off excess energy and for everyone to eat andyour child.
grab a drink.- 4. Make sure you have a letter of diagnosis
Now that you know how far you want to go forfrom your doctor. Also make sure you have all
your vacation, whether to drive or take a plane,emergency medical information packed. If you
and what kind of vacation destination will interesthave medicines, make sure you have enough for
your child, you are ready to pick a destination. the whole trip.
The internet is a great resource to start with. - 5. If you use a schedule at home with your child,
You can search on your area of interest.  If youmake one for the trip.
are looking at a vacation that includes a theme- 6. Pay attention to the cues your child has for
park, contact the theme park guest relations andalerting you how he/she is feeling. It is always
ask them their specific policies for children withbetter if you can head off a meltdown before it
Autism.  Theme Parks may not post on their sitestarts. This is not always possible, but just one
their specific policies, but do have one in place toless is a good thing.